Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Where to Begin? Begin with Gratitude.

As I was pondering what to share first, I asked myself what the most important aspect of yoga is. There’s the Yamas, which are ethical disciplines and include such endeavors as being compassionate and truthful, not stealing nor grasping, and the spiritual use of our sexual energy. The Niyamas would also have been a good starting point as they encompass ideals for living with soul through individual discipline. The Niyamas include living purely, with contentment and enthusiasm, self-study, and dedication to and celebration of the spiritual. All of these are important parts of yoga and we will have a more in-depth look at them individually soon.

Of course there is no one ‘most important’ aspect of yoga. But what kept coming back to me over and again was how great it is to be able to recognize the gifts that life gives us and to sincerely feel grateful for them. The other component to that is the realization that every event and everybody in our lives serves our growth. Be it something as little as our car keys being easily found when we’re pressed for time or as large as loving people in our lives, everything deserves our gratitude and we are all the more fulfilled when we realize and acknowledge that on a regular basis.

Regular feelings of gratitude may require cultivation. One way to do that is to set some time aside in your day to solely focus on what you have to be grateful for. It may start with something as seemingly minor as not being late for you class today and then remembering that person who showed you a kindness by making room for you. That might lead you to the appreciation of yourself for your efforts that you put into your health and well-being by practicing yoga or what ever else you do to take care of yourself. Those thoughts may then cause you to realize how grateful you are to be able to practice because you have the time, the physical capabilities, and the commitment, etc.

As you go along, you begin to realize that the things that you have to be grateful for are endless. The more often you set time aside for cultivation of gratitude, the keener your awareness becomes of the fact that you are the recipient of an abundance of wonderful gifts all day, every day.

So let us begin with gratitude, each day. Let us end with gratitude, every night. And let it permeate our day. Nothing but good can come from it.

Namaste.

4 comments:

Chris said...

Laura -- your statement at the end is breathtakingly clear and so true: "So let us begin with gratitude, each day. Let us end with gratitude, every night. And let it permeate our day. Nothing but good can come from it."

I'm going to put it on a bumper sticker...

-D said...

I am forever grateful for friends sharing their stories and life's lessons.

Chris said...

For a first blog, you really hit one out of the park with this.

Anonymous said...

Hey all, where to begin is a wonderful sentiment and amazingly sitting still in the journey toward meditation may just be that start. The other 7 paths of Ashtanga or Royal Yoga seem to be illumined by starting with sitting still in a straight posture (even in a chair if need be) and with a gentle breath. The only other starting point is to choose your mantra, something simple without a need for a definition. Many use the mantra, "I am." Please do not take this for an egotistical I am. This is just, "I am." When your mind takes a journey away from the mantra, move back to the mantra with kindness and without worry or definition. You may begin to see colors or visions, do not mistake this for meditation,just watch and return gently to your mantra. Begin the day with a 10 minute practice, end the day with a 10 practice; gratitude in the AM and gratitude in the PM, no matter if a crappy or happy day. Thank you Laura for providing such a loving site for people that are exploring the methods of Yoga. Even saying the word Yoga is so very powerful, particularly, when we realize its primary meaning: "union." Be still and know that " I Am." Hmmm, sounds familiar. Sit and meditate, the pratice of yamas and niyamas will occur without even trying.

Your friend in practice, the guru is in us.